I’ve witnessed several times, where someone recovered from a heart-broking incident, alteration in mental behaviour and attitude started to take control.

经一事，长一智。 Life is indeed like an sine graph, uphills and downhills and waiting for us everywhere, fell and grow are just stuff and spice of life. Some people would started to intensify their selfishness after being mistrust or betrayed, this has nothing to be fear as it’s a natural phenomenon programmed in our genes’ core by our so called Creator. What I really deplore is certain people might think they have grown “mature”! In fact, it’s just an activation of our self-protecting mechanism (psychologically speaking) and we are not being mature but “cynic” (anthropologically speaking)

Couple thousand years of civilization, yet the breakthrough of human mindset is still pathetic and pitiful.

Really wonder why God created “selfishness and cynicism” in this world……